Well, I definitely have an interesting week ahead of me. Not only do I work everyday...wait....every day for the next month! I have to try to get my cats kittens weened and eating something else. One of Aaron's kittens are already using the litterbox on her own! I'm so proud of her! It's going to be so different without them here :( They are kind of part of our family! But enough is enough. I wish we could have more animals, but our house isn't big enough.
I get my scooter back this week!!! After 4 months of repair it's finally back to brand new! No one else is riding it this time. Yeah interesting story there. This is where I am "too nice" I let someone use it all the time and he ran it into the ground...some friend.
Well...I have something MAJOR planned for this Thursday....and then this weekend. I can't wait to tell you all about it and put up pictures!!!! I have to work at 6 tonight so hopefully I'll be able to make some tips. Watching Spiderman 2 right now with my baby, good way to relax before work. Hope everyone else had a good day!
This blog is mainly the path I am taking in becoming a step-mother and a Navy wife. I have been with my fiance for almost 4 years, and we are getting married this year. He has two daughters from a previous marriage who are 6 and 5, and I love them to death. So, here is my blog of a soon to be step-mother and Navy wife.
Monday, March 21, 2011
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Beggers can't be choosers
Lately I have been finding myself torn between the friends I have. If it's not one saying something about me behind my back it's another. I mean, I never had this issue back home. Now, I mean people in Virginia it just seems have a different perspective on "friendship". I just do not get it. What would compell someone to go say something that isn't true about someone to someone else??
Recently, I had a co-worker who was considered a friend, up and leave her husband; in a trailer, with no car, no money, nothing in Richmond, VA. I was not really friends with this husband, but he found that I was the only person he could call to help. I did, I live 2 hours from where he was, and I went and got him. After that, about a month goes by, I figure we had a room to rent why not? So he stayed here for about 2-3 months. He was a great roommate, probably one of the best I have ever experienced. We got into one arguement about his cat getting fixed. All of sudden, all hell breaks loose. Suddenly (after everything I had done for him) I am the one creating problems, I am the one at fault for stuff, and all that jazz. So he moves out, on his own choice. Then a week ago, tells Aaron that he was "pushed out". After he told Aaron a few weeks before that that he felt tension in the house and wanted to to move out to save our friendships. Then, he is hearing from people that I "threw him out" and that I said he was a "thief and a liar". Which was never said, but nevertheless, the roommate chose to listen to people he "didn't even know" according to him. So, I have actually come to terms with that I am too nice to people. I do too much for people, and after all of that and him telling my best friend that I stole from him and stuff; I am not going to give in to people anymore. If people need a favor, they can look elsewhere and ask someone else. Because even though I am scared to move to a different country, I am actually counting the days so I can start over and get away from the people who are taking advanatage of me.
Then I have people who are trying to be sociable with me and get "information" just to talk behind my back; well that's over too. I'm not talking to many people anymore about my life or what goes on in it. So therefore, I guess since I chose the "friends" I had I can't really complain since I put myself there.
But anyways, just another thought for another blog.
Recently, I had a co-worker who was considered a friend, up and leave her husband; in a trailer, with no car, no money, nothing in Richmond, VA. I was not really friends with this husband, but he found that I was the only person he could call to help. I did, I live 2 hours from where he was, and I went and got him. After that, about a month goes by, I figure we had a room to rent why not? So he stayed here for about 2-3 months. He was a great roommate, probably one of the best I have ever experienced. We got into one arguement about his cat getting fixed. All of sudden, all hell breaks loose. Suddenly (after everything I had done for him) I am the one creating problems, I am the one at fault for stuff, and all that jazz. So he moves out, on his own choice. Then a week ago, tells Aaron that he was "pushed out". After he told Aaron a few weeks before that that he felt tension in the house and wanted to to move out to save our friendships. Then, he is hearing from people that I "threw him out" and that I said he was a "thief and a liar". Which was never said, but nevertheless, the roommate chose to listen to people he "didn't even know" according to him. So, I have actually come to terms with that I am too nice to people. I do too much for people, and after all of that and him telling my best friend that I stole from him and stuff; I am not going to give in to people anymore. If people need a favor, they can look elsewhere and ask someone else. Because even though I am scared to move to a different country, I am actually counting the days so I can start over and get away from the people who are taking advanatage of me.
Then I have people who are trying to be sociable with me and get "information" just to talk behind my back; well that's over too. I'm not talking to many people anymore about my life or what goes on in it. So therefore, I guess since I chose the "friends" I had I can't really complain since I put myself there.
But anyways, just another thought for another blog.
From the beginning
Okay, so I will go a little into depth about me before delving into my life lol. My name is Cassie, I am 24 years old. I currently live with my fiance in Virginia. My fiance, Aaron, is 28 and has been serving our country for 10 years in the Navy. I am originally from Wisconsin and Aaron is originally from New York. We met through a mutual "aquaintance" (another story for another day lol). We have been together for almost 4 years and are getting married this year.
Let's see...I have been married before, when I was young. I am a huge animal lover! I love to sing and dance, read and write, travelling is my number 1 next to singing. I like to meet new people and get to know them.
I work two jobs, delivering pizza and at a local grocery store. I recently finished school for my Associates Degree in Arts. I want to work with the FBI in preventing crimes committed on the internet. I blame Diane Lane and her movie "Untraceable" for that aspiring goal lol.
I love movies too, I have so many it's not funny lol.
Well, in my upcoming marriage I will be inheriting 2 step-daughters, Maria who is 6; and Erin who is 5. They are my life besides my fiance and my animals. These two girls have helped me understand what it is like to be a mother since I have known them since they were 2 and 4. Another person I will be inheriting is my fiance's ex-wife and hopefully a good friend who will be able to give me the advice I need when I need it.
I think I am going to end it here, at least for now. I shall write more later on today :)
Let's see...I have been married before, when I was young. I am a huge animal lover! I love to sing and dance, read and write, travelling is my number 1 next to singing. I like to meet new people and get to know them.
I work two jobs, delivering pizza and at a local grocery store. I recently finished school for my Associates Degree in Arts. I want to work with the FBI in preventing crimes committed on the internet. I blame Diane Lane and her movie "Untraceable" for that aspiring goal lol.
I love movies too, I have so many it's not funny lol.
Well, in my upcoming marriage I will be inheriting 2 step-daughters, Maria who is 6; and Erin who is 5. They are my life besides my fiance and my animals. These two girls have helped me understand what it is like to be a mother since I have known them since they were 2 and 4. Another person I will be inheriting is my fiance's ex-wife and hopefully a good friend who will be able to give me the advice I need when I need it.
I think I am going to end it here, at least for now. I shall write more later on today :)
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